STOP
Don't waste your time feeling guilty.. Just be grateful
Monday, April 30, 2012
Tuesday, April 24, 2012
ENOUGH WITH THE B.S.
Often I ask myself about Black holes. Just what are they exactly ? Short-cuts from one part of the universe to another? Let's leave those various hypotheses well alone - for they, in their turn, are vortices. They absorb our energy, time and attention yet rarely leave us any the wiser. So, too, do personal conflicts and inexplicable emotional needs. Sometimes its hard not to be tempted to get drawn further into a situation that you should really steer well clear of. If you can't see an answer, leave the question alone.
Monday, April 23, 2012
Thursday, April 19, 2012
HOW WE GROW
You cant move on until you let go of the past
Letting go is the easy part
Its the moving on that is painful
So sometimes we fight it
Try to keep things the same
Things cant stay the same thou
At some point you have to let go, move on
Because no matter how painful it is
Its the only way to grow
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
MISTAKES
Turns out, sometimes you have to do the wrong thing… sometimes you have to make a big mistake, to figure out how to make things right. Mistakes are painful… but they’re the only way to find out who you really are. I know who I am now. I know what I want. , I have a new heart,
I Love You
Bye
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
Thursday, April 5, 2012
Sunday, April 1, 2012
I KNOW WHAT I WANT
No relationship is ever a waste of time. If it didn't bring you what want, it taught you what you DON'T want.
Friday, March 30, 2012
REMEMBER
We create that which we fear. We attract what we think we are worth. We generate that which we think we deserve.
Saturday, March 17, 2012
RISKY
It is better to take the risk of expressing how you feel, rather than pretending you feel nothing at all. Do something; otherwise nothing will happen.
Sunday, March 11, 2012
FOOLISHNESS
What seems impossible, turns out it's the easiest thing of all... and that would be fooling yourself
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
SECOND CHANCES
Sometimes, like I mean on very rare occasions. Like once every 2 years, if not longer, I truly believe that it is okay to give someone a second chance. They messed up. They broke your heart. They treated you like shit. They lied. They cheated. They “broke your spirit”. Fine, sucks big time. No one is disputing that. No one faults you for never, ever, ever speaking to them again in your natural born life. But what if they’re truly sorry. I don’t know how you really know, honestly, I always think once a liar always a liar, once a bullshitter, always a bullshitter. But I know that’s not right somewhere deep down. If no one could ever change then the world would really be an awful place…and a whole lot of people would never speak to each other again. So say their apology is genuine and they are really showing you the difference through their actions and not just their words. There is definitely that chance that someone can be more than sorry that they got caught, called out or told off. They aren’t just sorry because it ended badly they’re sorry they did it at all, there are those few people, and when you come upon those people, there is no reason not to give them a second chance if you really want to. They KNOW they will have to work hard. No one in their right mind is taking you back if nothing has changed. Someone should be working double time to show you that they are worth the risk you are taking with your heart and emotional sanity. If they aren’t working double or even triple time…well, I would question if they are really willing to work for your forgiveness or your future relationship. Sometimes wires really do get crossed or words confused or stories twisted and you’re so mad you don’t check to see if there is something you may have missed, something that may just be a little bit off that could have changed the whole situation. Be open to being wrong. If you’re not you will live your life closed off to the chance of personal growth and change. And if you do find that it was you, fess up, don’t let your pride get in the way, don’t figure you’re just better off without them, humble yourself and say something. Sometimes you just plain old miss them. Sometimes cutting ties is not as easy as you thought it would be, or your friends make it sound, or their actions made it seem like it would be. Sometimes cutting ties really does feel like something or someone in this case has been cut right out of you. Like you’re missing a piece of who you are or are supposed to be, and it’s just not worth teaching someone a lesson and losing part of yourself while doing so. This is where my best advice is just to talk. Until you’re blue in the face, until you hate the subject and couldn’t think of another thing to say about it, and then…let it go and if you both feel like you can’t make it without each other…why try? Unless you have a direct connection to the MIB (Men in Black) and their awesome memory eraser thing (which I have in fact told one man that’s what it would take for me to date him again) then you’re never really going to forget whatever it was that broke you two up in the first place . There will always be something that reminds you of the girl he left your for, or the guy she cheated on you with you’re going to think about it. You are going to immediately go back to those feelings where you hurt, and it’s honestly, most likely, still going to hurt. But in these cases it’s not about forgetting, because if you forget too much you could find yourself right back in the same position they put you in last time. I’d like to say here “Keep your guard up”, but to me guard feels like a wall or shield and with either of those it makes it hard for other emotions to get through and real growth to occur, figuratively, use something soft like a pillow guard, you’re not trying to strong arm the person but you also can’t be oblivious to past events, and even if you try your mind won’t let you. But whatever you do please try to forgive, don’t let someone who was careless with your heart or feelings control your future relationships or mental well being, it will never be worth it. In the end, it’s always your choice. You always have a say in your life, relationships and future. So I say, give it a go if you’ve got it in you. If you’ve forgiven, if they’ve grown, and if you’re willing to put yourself “out there” one more time, by all means, do so. The worst that can happen is that they’ll fuck up again and you’ll learn a lesson about second chances or going back to an old love that moved on.
Sunday, March 4, 2012
MOVING ON
I think it’s a sign of masochism, when people allow others to step all over their hearts. Sometimes, the person doing the stepping doesn’t love themselves, much less to love you the right way. You can be sympathetic towards their situation, but being sympathetic doesn’t mean being a punching bag or a doormat.... Move on
Friday, February 24, 2012
Monday, February 13, 2012
Looking in
The funny thing about love and relationships is that it will bring up all that is unloved within ourselves
Sunday, February 12, 2012
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
ARRIVAL
If you ever want to understand what really happened to you in your past, all you have to do is wait a while. Soon the future will be here. When it arrives, you will be able to see precisely what kind of an impact your story so far has had. Too often, we dismiss valuable opportunities because they do not match our ideas or expectations
Sunday, February 5, 2012
LETTING GO
If its meant to be nothing can derail it. If its not there's nothing you can do to put it back on track. Go with the the flow... It will ride itself out
CHANGING WHAT YOU WANT
If you've got what you want, what else can you need? How about the ability to keep wanting it once you've got it! One good way to ensure this is to spend a long time with an unfulfilled desire. The more you yearn for something, the more likely you are to appreciate it when that wish is finally granted. What do you now want? What do you not want? Whose company do you crave? Who are you tired of? Will you want what you don't want once you have no longer got it? It's sentiment not circumstance that will shape the next phase of your future.
Thursday, January 26, 2012
HUMAN
“Not everything about being human is easy or even nice. We are made to endure, and sometimes even be the cause of, difficulty and hardship"
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Sunday, January 8, 2012
Life
Life isn't about how many breaths you take .. It's about the moments that take your breath away
Thursday, January 5, 2012
BEST
i can still feel your breath upon my neck
you can still smell the perfume in your breath
i can still see your footsteps in the yard
you're the one that broke my heart
Clear
I can see clearer and I'm getting closer
To finding out to just who I am without you in the way
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